There’s an Art to Dressing Well—and You Can Learn It
Have you ever put together an outfit that looked amazing in theory but felt off once you put it on? Maybe the colors didn’t harmonize. Maybe the proportions weren’t quite right. Or maybe it just didn’t make you feel as confident as you had hoped.
The truth is, building flattering outfits isn’t about chasing trends or guessing what works. It’s about understanding a few foundational rules—and then applying them to your body, style, and life.
Once you learn the formula, you’ll know exactly how to create flatter outfits every time.
Let’s break it down.
Step 1: Start with the Right Foundation—Your Body Type
Every great outfit starts with fit and proportion. And that begins with understanding your body type. At StyleFinder, we teach five core body types: Pear, Apple, Hourglass, Rectangle, and Inverted Triangle. Knowing your shape allows you to choose pieces that bring balance to your frame and highlight your favorite features.
For example:
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If you’re a Pear, you might build your outfits from the top down—starting with an eye-catching blouse to draw the eye upward.
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If you’re an Apple, you may look for flowy tops that skim the midsection and pair well with slim bottoms.
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An Hourglass benefits from outfits that emphasize the waist and follow the body’s natural curves.
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Step 2: Know Your Style ID
Once you understand your shape, it’s time to add personality. That’s where your Style ID comes in.
Are you Classic, Romantic, Dramatic, Sporty, or Contemporary? Knowing your Style ID will help you choose the types of pieces, fabrics, and accessories that feel like you—so you’re not just dressing to flatter your shape, but also to reflect your soul.
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A Romantic might add ruffles or soft florals to a flattering wrap dress.
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A Dramatic will choose bold accessories or an asymmetrical hemline to create visual interest.
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A Classic will opt for clean lines and timeless structure that never go out of style.
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Step 3: Use the Rule of Thirds
One of the easiest tricks for flattering your shape is the Rule of Thirds. Rather than splitting your outfit into two equal halves (which can visually cut you in half), break your look into thirds.
Try this:
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Pair a shorter top with high-waisted pants or skirts.
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Use a belt or a tucked-in shirt to create a defined waistline.
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Layer a cardigan or jacket to shift the visual balance.
This technique instantly lengthens the legs and helps create proportion—even without heels.
Step 4: Play with Shape and Structure
Flat outfits = flat energy. You want to build your outfit using shape, structure, and texture.
Here’s how:
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Add a jacket or vest to bring structure
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Mix soft with strong: a flowy blouse with a fitted bottom, or a fitted top with wide-leg pants
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Use accessories like belts or scarves to add dimension and draw attention to focal points
Try to balance hard and soft elements in your outfit. That tension is what makes it work.
Step 5: Create a Style Formula
The most confident dressers often have a formula—a reliable outfit structure that works every time. Think of it like a recipe you tweak with different ingredients.
Examples:
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“Slim pants + tunic top + statement earrings”
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“Fitted top + midi skirt + cropped jacket”
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“Jeans + flowy blouse + belt + heeled booties”
The key is consistency. Repeat it using different pieces and colors when you find a combination that flatters you.
📌 Want help creating your own style formula?
👉 How to Build a Wardrobe That Works includes templates to build your go-to outfit recipes.
Step 6: Use Color and Prints Strategically
Color can visually enhance or downplay different areas of the body.
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Lighter/brighter colors draw attention to that part of the body
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Darker colors minimize or slim
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Vertical patterns elongate
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Horizontal stripes or large prints widen or add volume
If you want to highlight your shoulders and neckline, go for a lighter top with detailing. Want to slim the hips? Choose darker bottoms and eye-catching shoes or jewelry.
And don’t forget: color should reflect your personal coloring too. If you’re not sure which shades look best on you, that’s something we help you uncover in our course.
Step 7: Finish with the Right Accessories
Accessories do more than complete a look—they direct attention.
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Long necklaces or scarves to elongate the torso
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Bold earrings to draw focus to the face
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Belts to define the waist and add structure
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Handbags or shoes to pop with personality and tie the outfit together
Just one well-placed accessory can elevate your entire look.
Real-Life Example: Outfit Building for a Rectangle Style ID: Classic + Sporty
Let’s say your body type is Rectangle—your bust, waist, and hips are fairly even—and your Style ID is a mix of Classic and Sporty.
Here’s how you might build a go-to look:
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Start with high-waisted structured pants to create waist definition.
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Add a fitted tee or blouse and do a front tuck to follow the Rule of Thirds.
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Throw on a tailored blazer (Classic) or a zip-up bomber (Sporty) for structure.
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Add white sneakers, a crossbody bag, and simple gold studs.
The outfit is flattering, functional, and feels like you—that’s the power of combining body type + Style ID + formula.
Final Tips for Flattering Outfits Every Time
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Try on different silhouettes until you find 2–3 that work consistently
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Don’t be afraid to tailor—a small hem or waist tuck can make a huge difference
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Confidence is key—if you feel good, you’ll look even better
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Take a selfie in new outfits to see the full picture
Dressing well is a skill—not a talent you’re born with. The more you learn, the better you get. And the better you feel.
Ready to Build Outfits You Love?
Here’s your next step:
✅ Take the Style Quiz Now to identify your body type and Style ID
✅ Grab the Closet Clarity Workbook to clean out what’s holding you back
✅ Join the Find Your Signature Style Course to master the art of outfit building
You already have what it takes. Now let’s build a wardrobe that shows it.
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